Tommy Dorfman, celebrated for her portrayal of Ryan Shaver in the Netflix series “13 Reasons Why,” has stepped into the spotlight once again, this time sharing a heartfelt revelation about her personal life.
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In August 2022, during an appearance on Rachel Bilson’s Broad Ideas podcast, Dorfman unveiled the news that she is engaged to a woman, marking a significant chapter in her journey of self-discovery and love.
While Dorfman chose not to disclose her fiancée’s identity, she expressed the joy and authenticity she found in being “just a gay girl.” The revelation unfolded in a candid conversation where Dorfman shared intimate details about her relationship, emphasizing the genuine connection she shares with her partner.
“I fell in love with someone who doesn’t fetishize me,” Dorfman shared, shedding light on the depth and mutual respect within her relationship. The emphasis on authenticity and genuine connection resonates as a central theme in Dorfman’s narrative, both in her personal life and as an advocate for representation and acceptance.
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A poignant aspect of Dorfman’s relationship journey is the openness and vulnerability she displayed in discussing the practicalities of her transition. Notably, Dorfman shared that her fiancée actively participates in her journey by assisting with estrogen shots and providing guidance on administering them remotely. This intimate act of care and support underscores the depth of their connection.
“My fiancée, she knew how, so she did it for me the first time,” Dorfman revealed. “Then she was out of town, and we FaceTimed, and she walked me through it.” This revelation not only showcases the level of trust and intimacy in their relationship but also highlights the profound role of support in Dorfman’s personal journey.
Dorfman further reflected on the significance of her fiancée being the first woman she’s been with in “a very long time.” The experience is described as affirming, safe, yet simultaneously laden with the vulnerability and discomfort inherent in the journey of love. Dorfman’s openness about the complexities of being in love adds a relatable and human dimension to her public persona.


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