Controversial reality star and media personality, Tolanibaj, has made headlines with her declaration regarding infidelity in relationships. During an episode of her podcast, Bants and Boujee, which she co-hosts with Moet Abebe, Tolanibaj openly discussed her stance on retaliatory cheating.
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In the podcast, Tolanibaj stated unequivocally that if a man she is in a relationship with cheats on her, she would reciprocate the infidelity. She emphasized that this decision stands regardless of the depth of her feelings for her partner.
“If you cheat on me, no matter how much I love you, I will cheat on you back. I promise you. Maybe I will not go through your phone, but at the beginning I will let you know,” she said.

Tolanibaj acknowledged that this mindset could be considered toxic. However, she insisted that it is the most suitable approach for her. She also mentioned that she prefers to warn her partners about this stance in advance to ensure clarity in the relationship.
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Her candid admission has sparked a variety of reactions, with some praising her honesty and others criticizing the retaliatory approach to handling infidelity. Despite recognizing the potentially harmful nature of such a mindset, Tolanibaj remains firm in her belief that this is how she chooses to navigate her relationships.
The podcast episode has generated significant attention, further cementing Tolanibaj’s reputation as a controversial and outspoken figure in the media.
Watch her speak below:
“If you cheat on me, no matter how much I love you I will cheat on you back” –#BBNaija Tolanibaj pic.twitter.com/Eq9rnHBAJx
— Reality Tving (@RealityTving) May 22, 2024


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