What To Say When Someone Dies

When somebody dies, there are general condolence messages that can be said.

For instance, “My sincerest condolences for you at this time. You have my deepest sympathy and unwavering support.

“Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time.”

However, here are some other words to say when someone dies:

• I’m so sorry for your loss.
  You are in our thoughts and prayers.
• They will be so missed.
• I’m very sorry to hear this tragic news.
• I’m shocked and saddened by this devastating news.
• I can’t imagine how you must feel right now.
• If you want to talk, I’m here at any time.

When someone you love suffers a painful loss, it’s hard to know what to do. Sometimes it would be better to say nothing at all.

There are things that you can say or do that can be supportive or begin to open up the conversation.

Do offer your time
“I’m here for you”
Your friend or family member might not want, or even need, your help initially, but you can be sure they’ll appreciate your time a little later on.

Just knowing there’s a supportive face to open up to can offer great comfort, while giving the person space and letting them mourn at their own pace.

“I’m here if you’d like a chat”
Let people know when you’re free for a chat. It’s important that they know you’re here for them. They’ll appreciate any time you can spare to help them through the difficult time.

“Is there anything I can help you with?”
It might be a small gesture, but practical support is just as meaningful as emotional support.

After a death, there are many things that need to be dealt with, and helping with everyday tasks can make the difference.

Even if it’s just offering to make a meal or helping with the housework.

Do keep it focused on them
“How are you doing?”
Asking open questions gives the bereaved a chance to open up and talk about how they’re really feeling.

Offer a supportive ear and listen to what they have to say.

“I don’t know what to say”
Sometimes, there are no ‘right’ words and that’s fine. But it’s important to keep talking – about anything.

This way you’re keeping lines of communication open. It shows you’re there and you care, which is what they need most. They may not be ready to talk about the person who died, so this leaves the decision with them.